Getting through the first weeks with a newborn is not easy, as any mom out there would agree, but there have been many baby items that have it made it that much more bearable for us – and I wanted to share them with you! Keep in mind that these items are not uncommon, however are certainly ‘must haves’ for the new mommy and daddy. As promised, here are my favorite recommendations thus far:
These things were lifesavers for me. If you plan to breastfeed, these were the best recommendation I ever got. If you are breastfeeding, your nipples will get extremely sore and cracked - so sore to the point that you don’t want to wear a shirt or even shower! These shells make it a lot more tolerable. You insert them into your bra or cami and your nipple sits in a dome, so that it doesn’t touch anything. They are also great for when your milk supply comes in because it collects and catches any leakage (before your shirt gets soaked).
2. Kimono Tees
These are for the baby. I would suggest getting a pack of 3, since you'll use them quite frequently. They open and snap in the front, instead of having to put something over the baby’s head. These are great because while the baby’s umbilical cord is drying up, you don’t need to irritate it by putting a traditional onesie on. Our baby was comfy in his kimono and we had him wear it to bed every night until his cord fell off.
3. Breast pump
This is a must have, even if just for back up. Your breasts become so engorged the first few weeks that you may need to pump after your baby eats, just to relieve the pain you feel. Whatever you pump, make sure to freeze for later!
This is great for when you need a break or baby needs a change of scenery. Ours rocks and vibrates, and baby sleeps very well in it. We also take it with us when we go visit family, which is great because it’s compact and lightweight.
These come in so many awesome patterns and are so soft. We swaddled baby every night before went to bed for the first month or so. We found him getting the best sleep when he was swaddled. The tighter the swaddle, the better they tend to sleep - but remember, not too tight!
These newborn diapers are amazing. They have a strip that runs down the front of the diaper that lets you know if your baby has peed or not. The strip is yellow and will turn blue when saturated with urine. It is an easy way to know when to change the diaper at a quick glance.
7. Baby Lounger
This portable baby lounger is a God-send. We took it with us anytime we left the house to go visit friends/family. It is a pack-and-go (it folds up into a backpack for convenient travel) bassinet that is fun and engaging and keeps baby comfy and safe when you leave the house. We purchased the Lulyboo Baby Lounger To Go and love it. It is good for the first three months or until your baby outgrows it.
8. Baby mittens
You wouldn’t believe how long your babies nails can get, even right after they are born - you may even need to give your baby a manicure right when you get home like we did. Mittens are important to have on hand as babies tend to scratch their faces in their sleep or while moving around.
We were very hesitant to use a binky at first, but it really helped soothe the baby when we were changing or bathing him. We don’t encourage him to use it all the time, however it is better than him sucking on his fingers. We asked our doctor and he eased our fears by saying it can help with the hiccups and reduces the risk of SIDS. If you are concerned or on the fence, check with your baby's doctor and make the right decision for your family. Also, make sure to buy the 0-6m size, which is much smaller and fits the newborn face better.
10. Micro Steam Bags
These are great, affordable sterilizing bags that you can use up to 20 times per use. You just insert water, the items you want to clean, and then microwave for 1-3 minutes depending on your microwave wattage. It’s simple and easy and makes the whole sterilizing process 10x easier!
I hope that this series has helped some of you ‘new mom-to-be’ out there. I know a lot of these items seem so obvious, but they really were lifesavers for us! I would love to hear what some of you seasoned moms have to say about products or items you think are your favorite ‘must have’ items. Make sure to leave me a comment below!
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